In 2011 I became focused on doing retreats. I did my first Winter Retreat under the auspicious of Khenpo Karthar Rinpoche (a 3 month retreat Jan, Feb and March) in 2011. My retreats were less formal then one done in a monastery because I am doing it in my own home and I still have to cook my meals and go out shopping. Fortunately my home was in a location conducive for a retreat because it is in a very rural area. Even though less formal there are very strict rules in regards your commitment to your prescribed practices and the amount of time one must practice each day. I continued to do the three month Winter Retreat until 2015 ( definitely a game changer ) which at that point my life was going into a transition and the stability needed for this kind of activity was not available at this juncture in my life. But after my life levels out opportunities could open again.
Karma Triyana Dharmachakra is a Tibetan Buddhist Monastery in Woodstock NY and the Seat of his Holiness the Karmapa, the head of the Kagyu lineage. It is a center for Buddhist studies, a resource of teachings, teachers, retreats, and opportunities to reflect and meditate. Khenpo Karthar Rinpoche is the late ( recently passed Oct 2019 at age 96) Abbot of the Monastery and has been my teacher since 1981 (and teacher to thousands of other devoted students world wide) I have been a volunteer there for at least 25 years.